Men are so fickle; one day they want something and the next day they want the opposite. At least young men are that way. It's interesting how women are seen as fickle but men's lack of intellect isn't acknowledged. As a woman with a feminist side I blame society for men's lack of respect for women. The feminist movement was very good; women gained their rights. However, another result is that men don't know how to treat women. What used to be considered standard courtesy is now seen as offensive. For example, men don't hold the doors as much for women because the courtesy standard is no longer understood. As an American woman it's hard for me to be understood by guys I date.